ok, first you need a longer, larger tank. Think 60 gallons at least. Next, fill that puppy up. RES love to swim, the deeper the water, the better.
Does he have a basking area with a heat/uvb lamp or does he only dry off when he's taken outside?
Temperature and housing play a vital part in the health of your turtle. Please read the care info on the main site. Once you have everything how it should be, he should start eating again.
b0rn s0 awed wrote:i know my treatment of the turtle is probably not how it should be, but it just so happens that we're the type who likes to be with the pet most of the time, giving our love and attention as much as we can.
That bothers me a bit. Turtles don't need love and attention like dogs or cats. Taking him out of the tank to roam the house is never a good idea. He could get hurt or lost quite easily, not to mention it causes stress, which in turn causes illness. You can love your turtle without cuddling with him or taking him out to play like you would with a mammal.
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