Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 9:27 am
Ya know, sometimes human woman hit that hormonal stage early, and then they go kind of like rewind what their bodies just tried to accomplish. I wonder if female turtles do the same thing...
If your turtle was gravid and didn't lay eggs, she would've become egg bound and then died. The fact that she's alive says she's never been officially gravid.
Since you know that living with a male is stressful for her, refusing to bask could be the cause of that. When she's swimming, is it rather frantic? The male might have claimed dominance over the basking spot, and kicked her out. One of my two turtles, the larger one, did that to her tank mate a long time ago.
Having a female and male together means, if they do decide to mate, you'll have baby turtles to deal with. People on this forum will tell you to do one of two things: Terminate the fertile eggs, or raise the babies and find them a home. Both options are very irritating, and not worth it, at all. If you really don't want babies, or to terminate eggs, you will want to separate them. It's a health and safety issue as well, since, a stressed out female, who is usually much larger than a male, will get frustrated with her living conditions, and start kicking the crap out of that tank mate of hers. It won't be pretty.
I'm not really sure what you means by a medium tank... How many gallons does their house hold? Or, better yet, what are the dimensions of the tank? (Length, height, width) There should be about 10 gallons per inch of both of your turtles. If your tank is too small, this could be adding to her stress.
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